Don’t Be a Babymother Before a Wife: With the Right Man, You Don’t Need to Audition for the Role
The "Clinical" Reality of Self-Worth In my professional life, I deal with prescriptions and protocols. I know that if a treatment isn't working after a second trial, you don't keep increasing the dose—you change the treatment. Today, I applied that same clinical logic to my heart. I realized that "Wife Material" isn't a performance you put on to convince a man to stay; it is a Standard you carry because of the woman you have already become. 1. The Audition Trap We have been told that to be a "Wife," we must first prove ourselves as "Babymothers." We are told to "practice" family life to see if we "qualify" for a commitment. The Truth: If you are a woman of calibre—if you have built your own foundation and protected your peace—you do not need to audition. The right man doesn't need a "trial run." He sees the quality of the woman standing in front of him and he meets her at the level of Commitment , n...